We together know this temporary existence is all experiences beyond pleasures and pains. In the journey to fulfillment of our own unique purpose, remember always to live in elegance. Your elegance is your most natural, effortless, powerful, and freeing state of being.This goes beyond what is on your body, the ideas in your mind, the memories in your heart, the energies of those near you, and the spirituality that surrounds you. Your elegance is what attracts all goodness and what is your true essence as a woman.The beauty of your modesty is beyond a veil but a reflection of your soul's softness and timelessness. As you continue to live this way, you tell the universe and this world the unspoken and immeasurable worth of your spirit.Your actions always speak to me beyond your words as you tap into your most sacred presence. I shield any outside darkness coming toward you as I understand more of your inner light. We all have light, dark, and gray.There are things you may not show, though time gifts us tomorrow. There are things of you I may not know, yet your glow is evidence enough. You always respect yourself wherever you are and whomever is around you; that upholds your high dignity for the only way you can be treated. Our connection grows in time with peace in mind and life’s profound magic.You most honor God and you most honor our connection when you most honor yourself. The trust we grow together shelters and strengthens us from all storms to come. With my will to protect those close to me from this world's harms, I will help anchor you in faith from doubts, fears, worries, and uncertainties. This is not shielding you from realities of life but being present with you in those weathers you breathe.Being open with me as you exhale the days, the moments, the memories, the thoughts, and the feelings that come and go forges a wider channel of our connection.My principles are that you’re not any woman, but a woman connected to me. Our commitments to each other and The Most High bind me to honor and protect you as you deserve. Remember that judgment is reserved for Him and that the guidance and teaching I offer is with your benefit most in mind.As your belief in working toward a vision deepens, you more deeply remember that life's purpose is building with those we care for. That journey has fulfillment, impact, challenge, and a spirit that brings together great aspirations.Being a timeless woman of principle empowers you with more awareness of all the blessings around us and within us. Your elegance is in your soft-spoken expressions, the kindness in which you shower those you care for, and the virtues you uphold every day. This is the grace of your femininity and your power to live in elegance.
Love it trust.
Love is respect.
Love is built and natural.There are many levels to it.The highest level combines the emotion, with the action, with the respect, with the intention to benefit the other person because they are a part of you.When a woman loves a man, she honors him.When a man loves a woman, he honors her.
Your soul, your body, your mind, your emotionAll those things are precious giftsTo protect and understand them, we want to start with knowing where you are right nowKnowing where you want to be...
With a romantic conneciton, we want to...Ensure your sexual health is good
Your hormonal health too...
You are in a routine of lifeWhen a man is in your life, this routine will naturally shift into something else more meaningful and memorable for you.
There are foods and drinks that you should take to become the best version of yourself...I'll show you.There are also the opposite. Things to completely avoid.Because of long-term effects. Spiritual effects, emotional, cultural, mental, meta-physical.I will show you...
The best quality a man can show a woman is patience with guidance and good intention. That is what you can expect from me.
You have things in your mind that concern, worry, get your anxious, get you nervous, give you more questions...this is very natural...very feminine... I will guide you to have more peace in your mind and heart. And teach you things that benefit you...that benefit us.
Perfection does exist...in intentions.Nobody is perfect. Nobody normal wants anyone to be perfect.It's the openness, the honesty, the vulnerability that you show me that I'll protect and care for which makes our connection perfect.
All your needs...what are they...let's learn.
All your dreams, tell me...
Around me, I want you in your feminine energy 100% of the time...that's something we both build together...leave all the manly things to me...I'll handle it.
Every month, you'll have a cycle...And in that cycle you'll have changes in moods...Feel things very intensely...that will fadeSay things quite intensely...that you may not mean...Think things quite crazily...which is fine...Want my energy to comfort you...To control you too...which is a waveAnd I understand this...so...feel comfortable in knowing that I'll make sure you feel feminine when there's a calm and a storm.Because being a lil crazy means being a fertile woman.
I have dated...for funor fun and family...how you interact with me determines how the relationship unfolds...regardless of whether this is a romance between for now vs a romance forever, the standards of respect we will have for one another will always be the same
There can be no intimacy without a full sexual and hormonal panel being done first...It protects and respects what can unfoldIt gives clarityWe share results transparently and get checked every 3-months to ensure hormonal balance is optimal based on how our bodies adapt and chemically evolve
The sooner you introduce me to friends and family, the quicker I see that you are seeking something forever vs for now...
it goes both ways. There is no such thing as guy friends in my world view for a connection, even if we are having fun and I don't see it going anywhere, the concept of guy friends does not work for me. I don't interact with women as friends, it's either romantic or it's a business acquaintance with very clear boundaries. No ambiguity.
Traveling for work, girls trips, these are not concepts in my world that exist within a romantic connection. My woman is protected at all times, the world is roses and sunshine if you're protected by me, out in the world alone is a different picture.
Nothing good for my life or being honorable to God will ever or can ever put my honor into question or on the line...Honor is more important than love...
More important than life itself and living...Because love without honor is not love.Being alive with no honor is not living.This is very important to understand.And so honor is expressed in romance through showing respect for the other person, for the connection itself in times of conflict or uncertainty and in putting honor over ego or fleeting emotion.
People are spiritual...
The spiritual world is most often thought of in terms of unseen spirits...Those spirits are forbidden to be interacted with by God's command.People who do so are cursing themselves and those around them...If you do any of that, it will only harm you and those around you...If you did that in the past, tell me so I can help you to protect yourself from any harm it may continue to cause.
As a man, it is my duty to guide others. To educate. To teach.In a way that resonates, that penetrates.This is especially true for a woman in my life...
Teaching her about spirituality and history and life beyond the right now is a responsibility I must fulfill as a man.Every adult makes their own decision and with my guidance, they make better ones.
By definition, the man I am is superior to many others.And in level of importance, a woman for me enters into this understands by submission out of respect, not control. Out of interest in wanting to be better as a woman and human.It is voluntary.At the same time, this trust she gives me is totally superior to any other form of trust. It must take highest priority in terms of respect and protection.It is not taken for granted. It is nourished and planted.And the superiority we build is internal. Not external.There is no ego among us.We are in constant flow with oe another.
The most feminine woman will overcommunicate, overshare, over ask, overflow, over everything...She lets her emotions flow with me...
She can cry, worry, whatever it needs to be...As long as she is open and loving and respectful about it, there is no need to feel worry or ashamed or any of those things that keep you closed off a bit and hesitating.At the same time, I expect that.Over communicate, over call, over text, over share...you can be extra...I'm busy and will make time to be with you in person...but your over communication is simply a reflection of how engaged you are naturally in our connection...you don't even think about how much you do it... it just happens...
Very rare for me to be angry...I'll be annoyed, but rarely ever angry...Nonetheless when i get mad I get silent, I ask myself how will I eliminate this issue from happening.Then I'll give instructions and solutions....You see, screaming is not my style.It isn't good to scream at a woman because it doesn't really work on most of women...It works when speaking to men because they will understand the intent and your ability to act violently if they don't correct behavior...so anger in romance is very rare and usually involves telling a woman what needs to be done to fix something...
Everyone has buttons and when you get to know someone you better understand what they are...whether that's vulnerabilities, certain topics, certain behaviors, etc...I never intentionally will push buttons because that is what children do...
Things happen, people get lost in the moment and may say something disrespectful...But within a few hours (it's said within no more than four) the conscience will naturally and organically know that it did or said something wrong...That creates a space for forgiveness if apologies are made and sincereThe thing about disrespect is I never allow it.I've stopped friendships of over a decade for disrespect.Some people mistake connection as a pass to cross boundaries.I'm just not the person to do that with.I do cut people out of my life for blatant disrespect, because it's no longer about them at that point.Once someone does something like that, I'd have to disrespect myself and my honor in order to allow them in my life after that point.And that is never going to happen.Nobody good for my life is going to behave in such a way where it puts me in the position where I have to decide whether to respect myself less in order to have them in it.No amount of connection is worth it, so I make sure to make it very clear with people. Do not cross lines with me.
I dont ghost people. If I dont respnd to someone that I know romantically, they will 100% know why whether or not I told them. That's because I always make expectations crystal clear in life. There are no surprises except for good ones that are romantic. If I dont speak to someone again its because they did something totally out of line with what we agreed, and my silence explains it.
No thinking when you are with me...
I think, you do. I say, you do.Life is simpler that way.In other words, you are with me so you can turn your mind off completely.no need to decide, no need to analyze.just be a little princesa.
There are good sides to everything...
and bad...and those are totally different.So if I'm very controlling
and possessive...it's the good kind onlyThings must go my way...in the good sense...And I am fair and patient in the good sense...So, making and taking the time to understand that there are good expressions of things is a big part of my world view.It is not that something like being dangerous has good and bad.No.There is a good danger. It is completely different from a bad danger.They have nothing in common.It is not the good and bad of something.It is something that is good.And something else is bad.
Have dated many women in life, all beautiful on the outside. Outer beauty is not something that compels me to take you serious. If you're with me, you're going to be very attractive and feminine by default. I don't interact with women who aren't.It's your inner beauty that is most important. Your elegance as a spirit, as a soul, as a woman wanting a real man in her life.
There are different friends in different phases of life...The friends that are best for a woman are God-loving, God-fearing, and strive to be traditional wives.They understand the value of being conservative and refined.These are the kind of women that are best for you to have as friends.And if they are not the kind of friends you have, building those friendships is something I can guide you toward doing.These are the kinds of energies that will uplift you and support you during tough times with the right kinds of values.This is what you truly deserve...people who are grounded, who care for you, and who have the awareness in life that allows for that clarity to add to your relationships.
I want lots of kids...best to start with one...go from there...
I really like silence...can do days without listening to music, to others, to news, to anything. Nature itself is healing. Silence is the best form of calm sometimes...
Your best thoughts end up on paper...you refine your emotions...your ideas...your values...I will encourage you to write more - for you - for me - for us...for the future of your potential
I will encourage you to be more creative simply because you are around me...that will include all types of and forms of art...
The sun and the ocean are very important for our bodies...expect to be in the sun and ocean with me a lot. There are ways to enjoy the sun without tanning so much as a woman....
It's tasty...helps the gut...but should be eaten moderately to not effect stomach lining over time
There is an optimal diet for getting pregnant, for being pregant, and post-pregnancy.A woman benefits from a mostly fat and carb diet with a bit less protein.The macro breakdown depends on many factors include age, stage of life, cycles, and desire for kids...it ensures the healthiest outcome for the mom and baby...so too is the importance for me to be in my best physique to ensure a baby is as healthy as possible.
Good carbs are so important, so is timing of eating them, and how the body uses that energy
Our connection is like a movie...we gotta capture those moments to remember our story
Your inner beauty is your elegance
All are different moods depending on your cycle...you'll get all that energy naturally...
I like peace and quiet...makes the mind flow...
I sweat every day...if you're mine, it'll be sweating with you
If you're mine, you'll make my meals with that special energy of amor that adds a flavor nothing can replace. Most my food takes 20 minutes to make...so it's very easy to keep me healthy
I notice...everything...if i don't like something i won't tell you direct to hurt your feelings...i'll make suggestions because it can be fixed over time...take it like that as a form of loving intent.
you are a woman...when you tap into your depth of natural powers that God gave you, you realize that they include:- deepening calm and warmth
- adding smoothness
- beautifying an environment
- making others feel good
- deep and natural intuition
- having a sixth sense for people
- knowing good energy instantly
- knowing bad energy instantly
- reading people's intentions
- youthful creativityyou may have even more blessings from God that are unique to you as a human.
If you have or had any challenges in life...relationships...
money...
health...
whatever it is...
bad relationships with parents...
bad exes...
health concerns...
traumas...
mental health challenges...
if you take any prescription medications...Tell me.That way we can discuss it and see if this is something that is manageable independently, manageable with my support, or manageable with experts.These are future issues that may be addressed early on...And it adds to the romantic connection because of the openness and honesty.So don't be afraid and worried about sharing everything with me
Goes both ways. There is no thing as a connection to an ex if someone is with me. It's gotta be made clear that they can't think about contacting you for any reason.
I prefer a woman who does not use social media at all...for many reasons- emotional control
- inner self-confidence
- intentional content consumption
- more spiritual groundedness and humility
We will agree on how to handle conflict...A good way to look at it is two days...No matter what happens, we will meet in person to discuss it face-to-face within 2 days...out of respect for our connection...If we need more time, we say it.
When an connection is important enough, you ensure there is protection in case something goes wrong...so we will figure out who will mediate in case this happens...ideally, your parents since they have your best interest in mind...
8 hours of sleep for a woman is important for youth...so is learning to sleep on your back and left side...
The music you enjoy when you want to relax says many things about your past and future...
If connected to me, conservative dress is what i expect. This is because we actually represent one another in public. How I look says a lot about you. How you look says a lot about me.This is very important for a man like me who puts his honor above all else.So dressing conservatively is important on that level.It is also sexy. I find conservative dress very sensual...And if you have very short clothing, revealing clothing, provocative clothing...I like it too...but in private...for my eyes only. Nobody else can see but me.That is the energy I prefer.Skirts below the knees, not showing the chest at all, not revealing your arms, not showing your back...One piece swimsuits with a swimsuit cover...because if you're around me, you're mine. Nobody can see...or want to touch what's mine...And don't get tan...pale, pale, pale...No sun for you...
For us to have a smooth connection that blossoms and grows naturally, you only need to do two things...just two...not three...not one...two1. Be completely honest at all times2. Do what I tell you...because you trust and respect I have your best interest in mind.What benefits me can only benefit you when you deal with a man like me...